Good to know
Good to Know
- Swedes are inflexible with the timing of fika; don't disturb their coffee routines—it's not just drinking coffee but an integral part of Swedish lifestyle.
- Swedes are on vacation during the month of July; don't expect to have key personnel available during that time.
- Honesty and straight-talking are two highly cherished sides of the Swedish character; a promise in Sweden is just that.
- Silence is valued and respected in Sweden; it is not always necessary to speak, and silence should not be confused with a lack of interest or understanding.
- Alcohol is often served at Swedish business social events, but moderation is valued; drunken behavior can seriously damage your reputation, and it's acceptable to decline alcohol—many Swedes do, and non-alcoholic options are always available.
- Sweden is one of the European countries where casual dress code is popular in the workplace, though for business appointments you should dress more conservatively; modesty and a low profile are important, and avoid wearing anything flashy.
Greetings
Casual / Informal
- Greeting
- A simple 'Hej' (hello) goes a long way when approaching someone for assistance. In informal situations like arriving at the office or visiting a store, a simple 'hej' (hey) will do; if having a great morning, you can repeat it twice 'hej hej' to show enthusiasm.
Formal Meeting
- Greeting
- Greetings in Sweden are polite, simple, and direct; shake hands with everyone on arrival, shake hands again when leaving, maintain eye contact, use a calm friendly tone, respect personal space, avoid unnecessary touching.
Use of Names
- Greeting
- Swedes often move quickly to first names even in professional settings; first names are common at work and using them usually reflects equality, not disrespect. It is common to use first names in the workplace, even with superiors, reflecting the flat hierarchy and egalitarian values.
Jantelagen
Law of Jante (Swedish Ethos)
- Description
- Jantelagen is a social philosophy that discourages standing out or acting superior; don't brag about achievements or wealth; compliments are often met with humility, not big reactions; if someone says they're 'not bad' at something, they could be quite skilled but not the type to say it outright.
Punctuality
Critical
- Description
- Punctuality is essential in Sweden; avoid arriving too early or too late for an appointment or engagement, and it is not uncommon for guests to sit in their car or walk around the block if early until the scheduled start time has arrived. Timekeeping in Sweden is almost a national sport; people show up early or on the dot, and being even five minutes late can be seen as careless or disrespectful.
Arrive Early
- Description
- Arrive 5–10 minutes early for appointments, tours, or dinners; if delayed, inform your host promptly.
Sensitive Topics
Humor & Jokes
- Guidance
- Sexist or racist jokes are considered highly inappropriate (inte roligt / not funny); on the other hand, Swedes welcome any sort of joke about Norwegians or Danes. Humor is welcome but should be light, self-deprecating, and inclusive; sarcasm and irony can be misunderstood across cultures, so use them sparingly.
Conversation Avoidance
- Guidance
- Topics to avoid include personal income, overly political debates, and excessive personal probing.
LGBTQ+ & Social Values
- Guidance
- Anti-LGBTQ+ sentiment is not socially acceptable and condemned by law; Sweden is known for being a progressive and tolerant society that values equality, respect, and freedom, and homophobia and violence against women are not tolerated.
Religion
- Guidance
- While freedom of religion is protected, Sweden is a largely secular society, and visitors should not assume others share their religious beliefs or try to impose their beliefs on others.
Modesty in Compliments
- Guidance
- Compliment lightly, as insincere comments are considered rude and will make you look bad.
Home Visits Dining
Removing Shoes
- Description
- Removing shoes at the entrance is a must—it's standard practice across Sweden and considered polite.
Gift Giving
- Description
- If invited to someone's home, it's customary to bring a small gift such as flowers or chocolates.
Timing
- Description
- Guests are expected to arrive at the designated time.
After Meal Etiquette
- Description
- It is impolite to leave straight after finishing eating; guests are expected to stay for coffee and some conversation. It is important for guests to thank the hosts for their hospitality the next time they meet, done by using the phrase 'Tack för senast' (Thank you for last time).
Dining Standards
- Description
- A person places the utensils side by side on the plate once they've finished eating; leaving any food on the plate is impolite.
Workplace Etiquette
Fika (Coffee Break)
- Description
- One of the most beloved Swedish customs is fika—a social coffee break enjoyed with pastries and good company. Fika is one of the most recognizable features of Swedish social and workplace culture, usually involving coffee, something sweet, and a short pause in the day; in the workplace, fika can create informal connection across roles and teams, supporting equality, conversation, and social rhythm. Join fika when invited; use it for light conversation rather than heavy business pressure; do not dominate the conversation; respect the pause as part of working culture.
Meetings & Consensus
- Description
- Meetings are usually structured by an agenda that is distributed to everyone before the meeting, with very little talk outside the set agenda topics; all individuals are expected to contribute to the discussion. Decisions are rarely made during initial meetings; the first meeting tends to be quite general; when decisions are made, they are most often made by consensus across teams.
Directness in Communication
- Description
- Swedes are known for their directness in communication; they often get straight to the point, but in a respectful manner.
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