Culture & Etiquette in Paris

Good to Know

• Always say Bonjour and Au revoir in shops and public places—it goes a long way toward better service and respect.
• The French value formality and politeness as markers of intelligence and character; taking time for proper greetings shows cultural awareness.
• Avoid discussing money, politics, religion, or personal life unless you know someone well; these are considered private or sensitive.
• In social dining, arriving 10-15 minutes late is actually polite; for business meetings, arrive on time or slightly early.
• Meals are sacred and meant for leisurely enjoyment; rushing through food is impolite, and savor the experience with others.
• Formality remains throughout business relationships—don't expect to shift to casual tone after initial meetings like in some other cultures.
• French people prefer intellectual wit and debate in conversation; American-style enthusiasm and excessive compliments may seem insincere.
• Respect hierarchy in all contexts; always identify and greet senior/most important person first.
• The French separate personal and professional lives strictly; do not expect workplace friendships or overly familiar behavior.
• Fashion and grooming matter—even casual settings in Paris expect polished, well-coordinated appearance; quality over flashiness.
• Hand gestures vary in meaning; the 'okay' sign means 'zero' in France, not approval.
• When in doubt with formal address, default to vous (formal you) and let the other person invite you to use tu.