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- Lijiang is home to Naxi people whose Dongba culture is a shamanic religious tradition led by Dongba priests who preserve the Dongba script, the world's only living pictographic writing system
- Always dress modestly when visiting religious sites and ask permission before taking photographs of ceremonies or individuals; respect local customs and avoid touching the torches or fire without permission
- The Naxi people have a strong taboo against riding horses in front of their village; one must dismount before arriving, and it is forbidden to tie horses at the place where ceremonies for heaven are held
- The Naxi are followers of the Dongba religion, with a few believers of Lamaism, Buddhism, Taoism, and nature gods
- China is generally forgiving toward foreign visitors who make cultural mistakes; most people understand you're a guest and won't expect you to follow every local custom perfectly
Gift Giving
- Presentation
- Present and receive things with both hands, which is considered polite in Chinese culture
- Wrapping Colors
- Wrap gifts carefully, using auspicious colours such as red or gold, while avoiding white, black, or blue, which are associated with funerals, mourning, and sombreness
- Refusal Protocol
- Do refuse a gift a number of times before accepting it, as politely refusing a gift before accepting it is the norm in Chinese culture
- Appropriate Gifts
- Gift small items like books, music CDs, perfumes, cigarettes and candies from your home country or a well-known Chinese brand
- Avoid Taboo Items
- Gifting knives or scissors is taboo as they symbolise cutting ties or can be seen as threatening
Photography
- Permission
- It is considerate to always ask for permission before taking photos of people, especially in ethnic minority regions, as respecting people's privacy and traditions is crucial
Punctuality
- Business Meetings
- Punctuality in China matters greatly as a mark of respect for the host's efforts; be on time, or even a few minutes early, to honour the invitation
- Casual Gatherings
- The Chinese are often punctual and will generally arrive at the designated time, particularly when meeting someone for the first time, though for casual appointments or gatherings with friends or family, Chinese people tend to attach less importance to punctuality
Saving Face
- Importance
- Raising your voice or getting angry is considered a loss of face in Asian culture, and China's no exception
- Indirect Communication
- It is uncommon for a Chinese person to directly say "no" to a request; preserving relationships is of the utmost importance, and to appear respectful, people often communicate "no" in a roundabout way
Public Behavior
- Decorum
- Maintain a level of decorum in public spaces; loud or aggressive behavior might be seen as disrespectful or disruptive
- Physical Displays
- Avoid public displays of affection, as even though public displays of affection in China are not as taboo as they used to be, it is still wise to avoid them
Religious Sites
- Modest Dress
- Dressing conservatively, especially when visiting temples and other religious sites, shows respect; avoid wearing very revealing clothing as it might be considered disrespectful
Dining Etiquette
- Tasting Food
- Try and taste everything served as this is considered polite when eating as a guest in someone's home
- Chopsticks Taboo
- Avoid sticking your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice, as this is seen to resemble the incense used during funerals and thus implies death
- Portion Etiquette
- Guests may leave a small amount of food on their plate at the end of a meal to show that the host has provided generously; traditionally, an empty plate could be taken to suggest the host had not provided enough and that more food was desired
Sensitive Topics
- Politics
- Avoid unsolicited criticism of the Chinese government, political system, or leadership in both in-person conversations and social media posts while in China
- Religion
- Religion is a private matter in Chinese society, and discussions about personal beliefs, religious practices, or criticisms of others' beliefs can be seen as intrusive or disrespectful
- Regional Sensitivities
- Taiwan, Tibet, Xinjiang, and Hong Kong are deeply sensitive topics; even well-intentioned questions can create tension
Respect For Elders
- Deference
- The correct decorum during interactions always entails showing deference to those who are older; it is expected that one bows their head slightly and speaks softly when conversing with someone elderly
- Not Challenging
- The advice or opinion of the elderly should never be contested, as talking back to or refuting them is considered very rude
Naxi Specific Practices
- Fire Pit Taboo
- It is prohibited to cross over the triangular frame on the fire pit, or to step on it or place shoes, socks, or clothing on it
- Well Tradition
- Even though modern running water facilities have been installed in every home for many years, the ancient tradition of the "one well with three openings" is so instilled in the collective memory of every local person that you will still never see young or elderly Naxi washing food in the first well opening
- Sacred Ceremonies
- During ceremonies for heaven, ancestors, or war gods, it is forbidden for outsiders to observe
Greetings And Introductions
- Hierarchy
- Address the eldest or most senior person first, as a sign of respect to those in a more senior position
- Formal Settings
- In formal settings, it is common to address someone by their title followed by their last name
- Physical Contact
- Do not offer too firm of a handshake, as a firm handshake could be construed as a sign of aggression
- Primary Greeting
- Handshakes are common greetings in China, and one should greet others by using a handshake or a nod
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