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- Auckland is New Zealand's most diverse and commercially connected city, where practical Kiwi business expectations sit alongside strong Māori, Pacific and Asian cultural influences.
- You may feel some pressure in social situations to keep up with hard drinkers; use your own best judgment in these situations, and you may get some ribbing for being a 'lightweight'.
- Avoid confusing New Zealanders with Australians; there is a friendly rivalry between the two countries which sees both make unfavourable or bantering comparisons of the other.
- It is common to remove shoes before entering someone's home.
- Show respect to Māori people and culture, and approach conversations about past treatment and treaties with sensitivity, as many Māori have experienced the negative impacts of colonisation first hand.
- Some Māori have tribal tattoos on their faces, arms and calves that have cultural and spiritual significance and do not hold negative connotations; all traditional Māori tribal tattoos are deeply personal and unique to the individual's tribal group.
- Expect some informal conversation before getting to 'the agenda' at business meetings; sport is a massively popular topic of discussion, and you may want to have one or two complimentary things to say about New Zealand's national rugby team, the All Blacks.
Tipping
- Restaurant Practice
- The Kiwi attitude to tipping is pleasingly uncomplicated; no tip is expected, though reward for excellent service in restaurants and cafés is appreciated.
Greetings
- Business Greetings
- Introductions in mainstream business settings are usually casual, friendly and direct, with a handshake and smile being common.
- MāOri Eye Contact
- Some Polynesian and Māori cultures consider direct eye contact to be disrespectful or confrontational, particularly when talking to elders or having a disagreement.
- Mainstream Greetings
- New Zealanders usually greet each other with a handshake, a smile, or a verbal greeting, typically saying kia ora, hello, hi, or hey when greeting someone.
- MāOri Greeting Hongi
- Māori greetings such as the hongi, where people press noses, show how respect, connection and protocol can become central when working with Māori hosts, iwi or community partners.
- Informal Acknowledgment
- You can greet another person by lifting your chin and eyebrows, which is more common among men and in Māori and Polynesian culture and is an informal way of greeting friends or acknowledging someone.
Hospitality
- Gifts
- If you are invited to dinner at someone's house, it is usual to take a bottle of wine, chocolates or flowers.
- Bring A Plate
- If a host asks you to 'bring a plate', this is a request to bring a dish or platter of food to share with other guests; the size of the dish should be slightly larger than you would normally serve as part of a family meal.
- Visiting Homes
- It is important to arrange a visit to a New Zealander's house in advance; do not arrive unannounced or bring friends and family unless you have asked to include them beforehand.
- Drinks Etiquette
- It is a common practice to buy 'rounds' of drinks while dining out with a group; if it is your round (also called 'your shout'), you are expected to buy drinks for everyone you are with, and each individual who receives a drink will be expected to pay for at least one round.
Punctuality
- Personal Visits
- Arrive as punctually as possible if you are the only guest visiting someone's home; arriving more than 10 minutes early may inconvenience the host, and being more than 5–10 minutes late without giving someone a forewarning is considered disrespectful.
- Business Meetings
- Arriving at a 9 am meeting at exactly 9 am means you're almost late.
- Restaurant Dining
- If you are eating at a restaurant, it is important to be punctual, as people will wait for you before they order their food.
- Social Gatherings
- It is usually okay to be 10–15 minutes late to a small gathering of people, and being late is more acceptable when attending parties and large social gatherings.
Public Behavior
- Spitting
- Spitting in public places and/or in front of people is considered extremely rude.
- Nose Hygiene
- Use tissues or handkerchiefs if you need to clear your nose; New Zealanders consider most things done with the nose poor etiquette (e.g., sniffing, wiping it with your hand, picking it with your fingers, or blowing it to clear snot onto the ground), and it is particularly crude to pick at your nose in public.
- Service Calls
- Do not wave, yell or clap your hands to call over a waiter or service person; instead, look out for them until they make eye contact, and then nod or raise your hand.
- Greetings To Acquaintances
- It is common for New Zealanders to greet people with a brief 'Hello' when you walk past them, and it is expected that you respond with a greeting in return or a smile of acknowledgement.
Business Context
- Dress Code
- Business dress is usually neat and practical rather than overly formal; conservative business clothing is suitable for formal meetings; jackets may be removed and shirtsleeves rolled up in working settings.
- Expectations
- In reality, Kiwis tend to value punctuality, practical evidence, honesty, and reliability.
- Formality Level
- Business etiquette in New Zealand is usually practical and informal, but Māori settings may involve much more formal protocol; the key is to read the context carefully.
- MāOri Business Engagement
- City business and Māori protocol can differ: A meeting in Auckland or Wellington may be low ceremony and direct, while engagement with an iwi, hapū or marae may require formal process, respect for kaumātua and attention to local tikanga.
Rugby And Sports
- Rugby Sensitivity
- Rugby is one of the most popular and loved sports in New Zealand; it's more than a game – it's an emotion for most Kiwi people; rugby is not just a sporting backbone but has a major impact on the life and culture of the nation; never speak ill of rugby and don't even try and compare it with other sports.
Sensitive Topics
- Compliments
- Try not to overload New Zealanders with compliments as they may find this awkward and become embarrassed; excessive flattery may be viewed as disingenuous.
- Topics To Avoid
- It is considered inappropriate to ask direct questions about someone's political affiliations, religion, salary, wealth, weight or age.
- Conversation Guidance
- In situations where small talk is required, New Zealanders usually discuss things such as the weather, sport, their children or other non-political topics to be friendly and engaging without invading someone's privacy.
- Religion And Politics
- New Zealanders tend to speak about religion and politics in general terms without indicating their personal beliefs or convictions, unless asked directly.
Environmental Respect
- Littering
- Clean up after yourself at all times and do not litter (especially in national parks); casual disrespect for the natural environment is frowned upon.
MāOri Cultural Respect
- Head Taboo
- It is a cultural taboo to touch someone else's head without permission.
- Tapu And Noa
- Much of Māori cultural etiquette is informed by the concepts of tapu (sacred) and noa (normal, ordinary, mundane, safe); tapu refers to something having an unordinary or special quality that makes it sacred, culturally restricted or spiritually protected.
- Language Respect
- Pronunciation of Māori words matters, especially in formal or public settings; using Māori terms respectfully shows that you recognize Aotearoa New Zealand as more than an English speaking business environment.
- Cultural Awareness
- Show respect to Māori people and culture, as well as sensitivity towards their history; many Māori have experienced the negative impacts of colonisation first hand.
- Pillows And Seating
- Do not sit on a pillow used for a person to rest their head during sleep; pillows that are used for seating or to prop legs, arms, etc., should not be moved under the head.
- Food And Preparation
- Do not bring food into any buildings, spaces or places considered tapu, such as the wharenui (traditional meeting house); it is a cultural taboo to sit on tables, countertops or other surfaces that are used for food preparation or eating.
Personal Space And Contact
- Personal Space
- New Zealanders aren't overly touchy; while it's not rude to touch someone on the shoulder or arm to make a point, most people only do this with people that they are close with.
- Physical Distance
- Maintain comfortable personal space.
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